Optifine Required
To change the texture of the totem of undying rename it on the anvil to one of the words from the list below
Reimu Marisa Cirno Smart Cirno Sakuya Satori Koishi Youmu Yuyuko Yukari Flandre Ran Patchouli
Use an empty frame to put the fumo /give @s item_frame{EntityTag:{Invisible:1b}} 1